Hello friends, happy weekend to all, in conclusion no study crash for next two days! Wow!
A few days back my eyes caught the fancy of a word string, “No body has ever complained of a parachute not opening!” Lol! But the ideology behind is just awesome! No body has ever whined of such a parachute doesn’t connote that the injured party took loads of pleasure in Newton’s law of gravity! Thing is he knows well that if he can’t put his brain into operation at the occasion fortune must put a full stop to his life for sure. So instead of complaining or remaining silent and watching the undesirable or wasting time in ridiculous it would be much better attempting some brain stuff or aerobics and obviously if anybody can help then ask for the help right away. If we can get the picture very easily when we see a peril in front of us, then why not in every day life?
Let me be a little short and snappy.
Things might look much better from another angle..'-) The person who is always smiling doesn't mean that he has no problem. But the smile shows that he has the ability to overcome the problems, isn’t it? It has a great assistance the other way. How if I enjoin is actually, often people have reliance in keeping their grief hidden inside or thrash about themselves. But the fact is it’s not viable. Whatever you feel inside, will eventually come out a day through frustration, antipathy, bitterness, even anger or through some other bodily processes and facial expressions that our body reflects. But is it only an individual consequence? No, in point of fact there are a lot of simultaneous upshots. It might happen when you let yourself regulated by others (to whom you feel that you shouldn’t say a ‘No’) or when your dear ones start tracing your faults or problems and counsels you. Naively their incessant recommendation starts annoying you. Every now and then they suggest something that you might not be in agreement with. So you start putting things and emotions out of their sight. But the most unsolicited episodes go on when the other person knows about it. But what to do! You were just cheesed off with all these shares and cares or cheats and sheets!
It’s true the world has become quite independent and everyone wants to be a little liberated. I myself believe in people, their intrinsic ability to think, feel, solve problems and take care of themselves. But experience the righteousness of contributing your love neither your grief nor heartache. What I reckon is everybody has been taught to believe; believe in God and if there is a deity, then also believe in demon, believe in this and believe in that, but has not been taught to know. That’s where ppl skipped. ‘Trust’ is the result of the experiment ‘Know’ and unless you know, you can’t be liberated. So if you can’t trust it is better to doubt. In doubt you can never feel fulfilled and a day or other you’ll start seeking how to go beyond and finally the ‘know’ (knowledge) you’ll get is the concrete ‘belief’.
Wrestle with your problem! If you need help then ask for help, and then if you don’t believe in their opinions in that case doubt in their opinions. Know whether they are right or wrong! Make them understand you; make them realize your feelings, make them know what type of person you are actually and what you like and don’t like. Learn to say no to the things you don’t like. By doing this you are not going to hurt anyone to be more precise you’re just supporting yourself in the ways that work. Interact with the person in the ways that work. If you feel like the interaction is transporting to lines of reasoning then stop there. Give the other person sometime. By this even you’ll be able to judge the person. If the person is really a welcoming one then eventually he/she will understand you. Brush against the sweet feelings of being cared. Interaction’s the right staging of your intellect. Your heart will guide you. If your intellect is the car then heart is the driver who steers you. So try to see with your heart’s eyes. Experience the goodness that you can furnish and have round from others.
All I’ve sensed somewhere in my life. I often tried to see my life in a really large photo frame, but always an ambiguity bargained in its layout, but the ambiguity kept me overwhelming! So I chose to find a lovely background to support my life in a charming approach and then to blend the photo into the background. It has never been easy to find the precious entities. However, although I had felt weary, I was able to find the sweetest background. People say, “Be thankful when you are tired.” I’m so so much thankful to the special someone to amalgamate in my life by colourful means and to emulate the gentle swirls of it in an inspiring way.
xoxo :) :*